Hello, Little Boy

Yep... we are expecting a boy. :)

Here's the ultrasound pictures of the baby... he's so darn cute even blurry in black and white.









(The ones like this with the baby looking directly at the camera kind of come out a little creepy, I think...)
So there he is. It's so nice to be able to use the right pronoun.

He's going to be Scott Douglas III, but we're already calling him Tripp (for "Triple"), haha. I think it's cute and it solves the problem of coming up with a way to distinguish him from his grandpa and his dad.

Getting Ready

Today, in a couple of hours, we're going down to the doctor's office to have an ultrasound and see if we can see what sex little Poppy is. I'm 19 weeks, and I have my fingers crossed that Poppy won't be shy. It's going to be odd not to have to rely on a nickname and be able to call the baby by its name.

At the same time, I am kind of enjoying the anticipation right now. The not-knowing, only two hours before we do know. I was always like this with Christmas presents too. I would never dare go looking for presents hidden somewhere in the house, because I love the not-knowing too much. It's exciting.

Beyond that one part of Poppy (which, I hope, will never be his or her defining characteristic) I'm excited to see how s/he has changed since my last ultrasound (12 weeks). A lot has been going on developmentally, of course, in the past seven weeks. Poppy is the size of an heirloom tomato and I can feel occasional kicks and flutters. The strongest one so far was during the Oscars last Sunday, I think while Adele was singing. The movements happen so quickly I don't realize till they're gone and then I'm wondering if it actually happened.

We will see how it goes...

Genetic & Other Testing

My latest ultrasound, at 12 weeks 3 days, was at a fetal diagnostic center in a nearby city. The ultrasound itself was pretty neat, although it took longer than my first one due to more measurements needed and the fact that the wiggly baby was not cooperating for the ultrasound technician at all.

What I found most interesting, though, was the opportunity we had to talk to someone familiar with genetics. I have always been really interested in genetics, so sitting down and discussing family history while she drew out a chart was fascinating to me. I was really glad I had my mom there, so that I had someone with a little more knowledge of my family's medical history.

What also helped immensely was that I have a subscription to 23andme.com, which is a website where you send in your spit (yup, and a lot of it, too) and get results back on your disease risk, drug response, traits you carry and also some details on your ancestry. It currently costs $99. Since I signed up in 2009, I have learned interesting things, such as my risk for age-related macular degeneration and coronary heart disease, whether I carry a mutation that might make me resistant to HIV/AIDS, the percentage of my DNA that is Neanderthal (seriously), and my mother's European heritage.

I was able to log in to my 23andme.com account on the geneticist's computer, and she went through looking for things that could possibly complicate the pregnancy or affect the fetus. The "carrier status" section of the site has results for things like cystic fibrosis, Connexin 26-related hearing loss, and neural tube defects. As it happens, my results show moderately increased odds of having a child with neural tube defects and also that I am a carrier of the Connexin-26 mutation. So, the doctor was able to order a test to make sure I am able to get enough folic acid in my system, and was also able to talk to us about the risks of hearing loss, which I am already pretty familiar with.

All of the tests I needed to take (both at the doctor's office and later at a lab) have come back normal so I'm glad for that. And especially glad for 23andme, because it was so informative for my doctor.

A New Addition Coming Soon

I haven't been updating this blog nearly as often as I'd like to, but then a lot of things are falling by the wayside since I have gone back to school and am also getting ready to welcome our first baby in July!

We found out I am pregnant on Veteran's Day, so early along (4 weeks) that it was just a faint line and I was so surprised anything even showed up on the pregnancy test. We started calling the baby Poppy because according to Baby Center, at 4 weeks the kiddo is the size of a poppy seed. It was so much fun telling our family members and friends. Just after Christmas I had my first ultrasound, and I had a second one just this week. It has been so amazing seeing the baby grow just over the course of two ultrasounds - from a thin line on the test to a tiny baby at 10 weeks to even more development just two weeks later.

10 weeks 3 days

12 weeks 3 days

As for me, I am feeling pretty good. Morning sickness set in around Christmas, but it hasn't been absolutely terrible so far. According to the doctors the baby is progressing right on schedule, the heartbeat is good and there's nothing to worry about. I'm just trying to focus on staying comfortable, getting my work and schoolwork done and coming up with ideas for the nursery (oh Pinterest). Right now, everything is just exciting! I know one puppy who is going to be a very jealous "older brother" come July...